One thing that I’ve seen a lot of bands struggle with is the phenomenon of there being a ‘main dude’. You might try to disavow this, saying that in your band everyone participates equally in writing songs, invests equally financially and the band has all main roles doled out so that you all put in similar amounts of work. Now this is totally within the realm of possibility. It just is generally an overoptimistic view of the way things are. I deal with bands every day ...